Is It Her? (Part 2)

Picture This: (No Subtitles) Remember my old friend, the one who was about to lose it? Well,, days went by... and whatever I predicted to happen, happened.. he forced himself on the poor girl.. and he scared her off.. but here's how it goes.. in his own words to me: Looking between what you deserve and what you want makes you see what's best for you, I know they say love is blind.. it is blind... because you're looking after the interests of your heart and sometimes it is ... you literally physically and emotionally cannot see what is right in front of your face when your heart has taken over at that given time.. and you should discipline yourself.. You want to mirror what you're feeling into what you're seeing.. like a parallel image.. while your partner is the one who distort the mirror and they see the imperfections in the glass.. in life there are multi linear paths that we can take and sometimes we end up limiting ourselves and turning down opportunities or people that we meet on the basis of that person/path that we devoted our time to.. how do we know that this person is the one? why wouldn't it be that girl that you blew her invitation for coffee a couple of days ago? His mind was wandering away.. the man was in need of a friend to talk to, about what he had.. and he started talking about this non-relevant topic, or so I thought: I think everyone cheats, everyone falls in and out of love.. there's no ONE couple that are completely faithful and in love with each other for a long time.. I think they do explore others.. and they fall in and out of love with different people they might be passing illicit messages with them subconsciously or consciously.. we humans are weird.. complex.. not 100% committed or faithful.. we do tend to partner but at the same time the animal instinct in us tries to find a different person to fulfill our needs! So I feel that our hearts and our minds try to balance that dynamic and make sure that one doesn't take control of the other... but sometimes.. you just fail! When just the thought of that person comes across.. you’re just overwhelmed! It’s like magic.. Now I can see what he meant! I thought that he lost it... but no he didn't I underestimated his ability, he had developed this immunity against shocks, from his past experience. Him: I just needed a wake up call.. and thank god I got it.. thanks to you my rational friend.. and to her for making me cool down.. Now… when everything is cold… do you think I can go back to her? I know I’m not going to be the irrational guy I was a few weeks ago! But is she willing to give me another chance? Me: oh well, I don’t know what to tell you my friend.. but I think that you blew all your chances off… You should’ve done what I told you… don’t pour all your feelings in one bucket! Your heart started beating after four years of no serious emotions.. it’s not easy.. all those emotions from the past years poured in one bucket… just imagine how much was there in your heart? Do you understand me? So take it easy… forget about everything.. take a break from everything… and she’s just going to vanish from your head.. and if for any reason there comes a time that she would come back.. you would have cooled down… Smile Please.. Him: “forces himself to smile” you’re right… I should keep myself busy like I did the past few days.. and it’ll just fade away.. and if it ever comes back..... I’m sure I’m going to be way too cool about it.. he who doesn't learn from his mistakes is apt to repeat them, thank you! End of Part 2.